Jewish
Interest
Planning
a Bar/Bat Mitzva
For many parents and grandparents, a Bar/Bat Mitzvah in Israel provides
a young man or woman with an unbreakable link with what it means to
be Jewish. Travelling together and experiencing the phenomenal renaissance
of their ancient homeland, members of a family can help a child realise
the importance of his/her Jewish heritage. Celebrating a Bar/Bat Mitzvah
in Israel leaves treasured memories which last a lifetime.
BAR/BAT MITZVAH
CEREMONY LOCATIONS
A Bar/Bat Mitzvah
is easy to arrange - whether individually, or by participating in a
group tour where all the planning is done for you. Call us with your
questions, on UK Tel: 0800 028 7579 or US Tel 1 866 854 1848.
Taking a group
tour
More and more people
considering a Bar/Bat Mitzvah in Israel leave the planning to the professionals
- the tour operators, Jewish organizations, federations, synagogues
and travel sponsors who can arrange group Bar/Bat Mitzvah tours.
The obvious benefit
of these trips for many families is the relief from the work and pressure
of planning. Even more important, perhaps, is that the Bar/Bat Mitzvah
celebrants make friends with the other children who are sharing the
identical event. It helps promote a more relaxed atmosphere and turns
the trip into a true holiday for the entire family, as well as a remarkable
spiritual experience.
Tours are arranged
during school Holidays and invariably include a special discount, or
even a free tour, for the Bar/Bat Mitzvah celebrant.
Taking an individual
family tour
Many tour operators,
organisations and travel sponsors can also make similar arrangements
just for your family and provide tailor-made itineraries. The advantage
is the planning is left to the professionals, while the family enjoys
its own privacy.
Doing it yourself
Of course, some
parents who are familiar with Israel, or who have family and friends
in Israel, may prefer to handle everything themselves. Here are some
pointers: it is customary for a Bar Mitzvah celebrant to be at least
13 years and one day, according to the Hebrew Calendar, and for a Bat
Mitzvah celebrant to be at least 12 years and one day.
The Israel Ministry
of Tourism is delighted to provide a beautiful certificate to Bar/Bat
Mitzvah celebrants. The certificate includes the celebrant's name in
scripted calligraphy, and is signed by both the Minister of Tourism
and, if the ceremony takes place in the capital, also by the Mayor of
Jerusalem. It is free of charge and perfect for framing. (If you are
taking a group or individual tour with an experienced Bar/Bat Mitzvah
tour operator/sponsor, this tour organiser will automatically make the
arrangements for obtaining the certificate.) Requests for individual
certificates for families planning the arrangements themselves must
be made a minimum of 21 days in advance of the ceremony.
Bar/Bat Mitzvah
ceremony locations
The Western Wall:
the holiest site in Judaism, Jerusalem's Western Wall - once known as
The Wailing Wall - was the last remnant of the Temple enclosure left
standing after the Roman destruction in 70AD. In 1967, it became part
of the modern State of Israel, and overnight became the central focus
of modern-day pilgrimages.
Bar/Bat Mitzvahs
at the Western Wall are held on Monday and Thursday mornings from 7:30am
until noon. The Bar Mitzvah celebrant may read a portion of the Torah
(maftir); reading the Haftorah is optional. Services at the Western
Wall are in the Orthodox tradition, and men and women are separated
by a partition (mechitzah); it is customary for Bar Mitzvah celebrants
to wear tefillin.
Bat Mitzvah celebrants
do not read from the Torah: instead, her father or other male relative
is called to the Torah in her honor. The family comes together after
the service, and the Bat Mitzvah celebrant recites a thanksgiving prayer.
Ceremonies at the
Western Wall are free of charge, however, donations are gratefully accepted.
Families may have their own Rabbi officiate at the ceremony. To have
the Rabbi of the Western Wall arrange the ceremony, contact Rabbi Nahum
c/o Tzvi Hoffman, Hechal Shlomo, Moreshet HaKotel, King George Street,
Jerusalem, Israel (tel: 011-972-2-627-4422).
Jerusalems
Southern Wall is no less holy than the Western Wall, for it is part
of the remaining southern enclosure of the Temple Mount. Private Bar/Bat
Mitzvah ceremonies may be held here. Unlike at the Western Wall, ceremonies
are held according to you and your rabbi's traditions - so men and women
may celebrate, sit and pray together. The atmosphere is tranquil, the
view of the Judean Hills and the Mount of Olives is haunting. The congregation
sits on the ancient, stone Hulda Steps, the original stairs leading
to the Second Temple. Your rabbi should make arrangements with the office
in charge: Chevra L'Pituach Mizrach Yerushalayim 8 Shamai Street (POB
2395) Jerusalem 94631. Telephone: 011-972-2-627-7550 or 011-972-2-625-4404
Fax: 00-972-2-627-7962
or 00-972-2-624-7137
The Western Wall
tunnels were excavated almost 30 years ago and are one of Israel's most
splendid archaeological discoveries. Their galleries enable visitors
to comprehend the enormity of the Second Temple (a construction of such
height and vastness that it dwarfs the Dome of The Rock) and give a
glimpse of Jerusalem as it was 2,000 years ago. Visitors can also reach
the nearest accessible point to the destroyed Temple's Holy of Holies.
Ceremonies here, like at the Western Wall, are strictly Orthodox. To
make arrangements: (Tel) 00-972-2-627-1333.
The Tower of David
Museum of the History of Jerusalem: Private Bar/Bat Mitzvah ceremonies
may be held in the historic courtyard and gardens of Jerusalem's 2000
year-old Citadel. For information: (Tel) 00-972-2-627-4111 (fax) 00-972-2-628-3418
The Hurva Synagogue:
destroyed in the War of Independence in 1948, it is now a simple and
elegant memorial graced by a giant arch which soars against the blue
sky in recollection of the synagogue's shattered dome. It has become
a symbol of the Jews' return to their holiest city, and it is an ideal
site for a private Bar/Bat Mitzvah service.
Neot Kedumim: this
625-acre nature reserve, dedicated to the restoration of the ecology
of Biblical times, lies between Jerusalem and Tel Aviv. It contains
hundreds of species of trees, plants and vegetation mentioned in the
Bible and Talmud: cedars and hyssop, olives, figs and pomegranates,
grape vines, date palms and Jerusalem sage. It is also home to wild
donkeys, ostriches, oryx, Golan wolves and fallow deer which are easily
observed by visitors. Explore ancient olive and wine presses, and excavations
revealing ancient threshing floors, cisterns and ritual baths. Bar/Bat
Mitzvah ceremonies can be Orthodox, Conservative, Reform or Reconstructionist
and include a tour of the nature reserve which connects to the week's
Haftorah. Celebrations are held in Neot Kedumim's 600-seat outdoor theatre
and vegetarian or dairy catering is available. Arrangements should be
made by the Rabbi or travel agent with the Neot Kedumim Reservations
Department:
(tel) 00-972-8-977-0777
(fax) 00-972-8-924-5881.
The Israeli synagogue
of your choice is also an ideal location for Bar/Bat Mitzvah, particularly
if you wish to hold the ceremony on Shabbat. For specific information
contact:
The Centre for Conservative
Judaism: (Tel) 00-972-2-625-2529 (Fax) 00-972-2-623-4127
Har-El Reform Synagogue:
(Tel) 00-972-2-625-3841 (Fax) 00-972-2-623-4866
Movement for Progressive
Judaism: (Tel) 00-972-2-620-3477 (Fax) 00-972-2-620-3446
Orthodox: Jerusalem
Connection Resource Centre (Tel/Fax) 00-972-2-627-1283, or The Great
Synagogue, (Tel) 00-972-2-624-7112, (Fax) 00-972-2-623-3620
Masada: after
the destruction of the Temple in 70AD, hundreds of Jewish refugees escaped
from Jerusalem and fled to King Herod's abandoned fortress-palace atop
Mount Masada, near the Dead Sea. For three years, the refugees - known
as "the Zealots" - lived, farmed and prospered atop the mountain,
taunting the Roman besiegers from its summit. When the Romans finally
breached the refugees' stronghold in the year 73AD, they discovered
that 970 men, women and children had taken their own lives rather than
becoming slaves. Masada was excavated in 1964 and has become one of
Israel's most prominent and most visited sites. For Israelis and for
post-Holocaust Jews everywhere, it is a symbol of Israel's self-reliance
and determination that such atrocities will "never again"
be committed against the Jewish people. Bar/Bat Mitzvah ceremonies atop
Masada are held in the remains of the Zealots' Synagogue, arguably the
world's oldest synagogue still in use. Services here are conducted by
the rabbi of your choice, according to Orthodox, Conservative, Reform
or Reconstructionist tradition. Arrangements should be coordinated by
your rabbi, travel agent or relative in Israel by contacting Masada
National Park: (Tel) 00-972-8-658-4207/8 (Fax)
00-972-8-658-4464 or
Arad Tourist Centre:
(Tel) 00-972-8-695-9333, (fax) 00-972-8-695-5052.